Weekly Words of Wisdom Q and AWeekly Words of Wisdom Q&A: Guidance, Direction, and Truth

For the conscious, heart-centered business owner, entrepreneur, and professional who is most likely working way too hard to BE the best that they can BE.

Master certified coach, Judy K. Katz, your manifesting and attraction authority and mentor, answers your most pressing questions for creating a life of meaning and purpose while enjoying wealth in all areas of your business and personal life.

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This week’s question comes from me to you!


Have you ever made a vow to be invisible? Seriously, if you are not living the personal and/or business life that you would really like to be living, it is very likely that when you were young, you made a vow to be invisible to be safe.

You certainly would not have known that you were programming your mind at a subconscious level; yet, if you made a strong, emotional decision to hide out, lay low, and not be noticed, for whatever reason, you sent a direct command to your subconscious mind – this is how you will stay safe and secure in the world.

What do I know about this? PLENTY!!!! You see, long ago, I made a vow to be invisible. As an adult, I had no idea this old vow was preventing me from letting my true self show up and be bold in my business and in my personal life.


Are you curious if you have made a vow like this? If you are struggling with increasing your income doing what you love, having a loving relationship, or you are carrying extra weight that you just can’t let go of, please do not miss the rest of this article. Your wealth, health, and happiness depend on it!

Itemized below are some of the signs that you could be suffering from the effects of having made a vow to be invisible:

  • You do not readily reveal your personal creative works to others, i.e. books, art, music, writings, for fear of being criticized.
  • You hide behind busy work that keeps you out of the public eye, away from new business opportunities.
  • The thought of exposing your “ imperfect self” to strangers makes you shrink.
  • Fear debilitates you in unknown social and business situations. It keeps you isolated, yet you long for connection.
  • You procrastinate and justify why you don’t make offers to others and charge what you are worth for the soulful work that you love to do.
  • You play “second chair” in your life, meaning, you will not allow yourself to be bold, up front and center, nor will you own your authority and power in your business or in your personal life.
  • You envy women (men) who demonstrate their personal power and influence to make a positive difference in the world and are paid what they’re worth for doing that.
  • You carry more body weight than you would like. You sabotage living a healthy lifestyle in which you can be more active.

Now, these are just a few, some I have known intimately. Hopefully, you have been triggered to recognize some of your own symptoms that come from your subconscious need to be invisible.

The very first step to becoming free from the safety vow of being invisible is becoming aware that this is actually true for you. You cannot change anything that you cannot realize, mentally and emotionally.

Second, you must be truthful with yourself and discover how much “being invisible” is costing you in you life overall. It is sucking you dry of your passions, of living the life that you deserve and desire.

Third, ask yourself what your life would be like without this vow to be invisible. Do you really need it anymore? Questions are the keys that unlock doors and release the energies that are trapped inside. You must refrain from any judgment of yourself or others in order for these inquiries to work their magic in your life.

Breaking this vow to be invisible is one of the most freeing gifts you can give yourself. Your soul is calling you to do this inner work if you are tired of struggling and you want to play bigger than you currently are, in every area of your life!

For further information and assistance in learning how to discover what vows you have made that are blocking your desires and creating havoc in your life, please contact me now to schedule a complimentary consultation.

My best to you for all of the peace, abundance, and joy that you deserve!

In love and abundance,

“Dream it, own it, and make it REAL”

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